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PostPosted: Sat Apr 13, 2013 9:04 am 
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ZOE SAID

The Elder egotist syndrome mentioned by Shelby rings true to me. If they leave the "truth" it still doesn't always change their ego. The disappointment at not being in charge and feeling important anymore has to come out in the wash somehow so they choose a path or forum or group that enables them and their feelings of superiority. One of them I know of needs to use spellcheck lol.

By the way, hello everyone .. I am a new member here but not new to the exJw forums. I have been reading here lately and think you are all very kind and patient which appeals to me. I don't so far have a faith because anything to do with the bible scares me after the horrors of being brought up a JW. I believe there is a higher power, I am not at all atheist. I am confused and hoping to find a way to enjoy a spiritual journey. My life has no direction or hope right now.
Thank you Tec for your invitation to me.


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Further to the elders acting and feeling superior theory. I have seen it so many times myself. I was treated like some silly poor woman who wasn't important because I was married to an unbeliever and because of several other unfortunate things they deemed to be weak and stupid about me. I saw them put people on ignore and treat them unkindly because they were racially different, poor and illiterate, old and sick, paralyzed and alone and not able to get to meetings without help. The elders were to important to help them or drive them to meetings, that was the responsibility of the other poor and needy ones.

I have to thank those elders now, their attitudes showed me they and their organization did not have Gods spirit.

Hello RubberPuppy you are adorable.


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Zoe wrote:
Hello RubberPuppy you are adorable.


Oh I can tell you are intelligent and wise
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2012 8:06 pm Post subject:
Hello Zoe!

Welcome to the forum!

In a sense it's not for me to welcome you because. I'm one of the newest ones here, but it's nice to see you! I too like it here very much. It's a haven after the Watchtower traumas, isn't it?


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PSACRAMENTO SAID

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This thread interests me because I too have been and angry atheist but managed to get past the anger. Sometimes an atheist will want to believe that a personal god exists and there is something more than death to look forward to.

To see other people claim to have found God and that he talks to them is initially tantalising. If on closer examination the atheist finds that he can find no reason to believe in this discovery himself, disappointment can turn to anger. The believers who have made the claim can become the target of that anger. Wanting to believe in God is not enough. Belief has to be genuine or it is of no value.

What is required for an atheist to be content and at peace is acceptance of other people's right to believe in God. If believers can accept the atheists right to not believe in God, there is no need for anger. Reasoned debate is healthy and desirable because it helps to encourage tolerance and a sharing of the many insights, experiences and wisdom that we have collectively acquired.

The purpose of this forum is to encourage discussion among people of many different shades of belief and non-belief, without resorting to abuse to win a debate. By doing so we gradually find that we are not as far apart as we may have thought. We find that the most unexpected people have something of value to bring to the table.

Though not a believer, I value the opportunity to be included and accepted here. We are all on a journey and I for one have no idea where it will end. Christians and individuals with different beliefs on this forum have influenced me. Not to believe in God but to overcome anger and be kinder to others, something gladiators are not usually adept at.


Excellent post dude.
I hear you when you say that "wanting to belief" isn't enough.
Too many times are wanting to believe is to believe in something that doesn't exist, in a God that WE MAKE, not the God that Is.
Sometimes we just have to be honest with ourselves too.


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Greetings and welcome, dear Zoe (and I hope this forum turns out to be a good place for you to discuss what you wish/need to)... of COURSE you can welcome others, dear Char (anyone can and it's nice when others do!)... and here's bleach wipe, PupsterMan - clean up your piddle, please!

Peace to you ALL!

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TEC SAID

This forum is only a couple months old, so no one here is really all that newer than anyone else. Guess that'll make everyone here the 'oldies' later on down the road

(welcomes are always welcome, i think, regardless)

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Hello Zoe....

Welcome again. Hope we may be of any encouragement to help you along your spiritual journey. Most of us too have been around the WT a long time or all of our lives. So we all have our bandages on lol.

Looking forward to your comments
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SONOFMAN SAID

Im glad I found this place on the jw site because I think I have already been blocked after my reply to the non believers. i f they are so sensetive they should stick to there own sites for the ignorant. David
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WELCOME, dear David... and peace to you!

I am sorry as to what occurred on the other board - sadly, it is becoming the norm as to some posters, including myself. Unfortunately, you were most probably blocked because of your last response - you must realize that there are those who are going to disagree; we cannot attack them, though, for doing so. We CAN respond to their attacks with truth... even if that meanings pointing out the failings, hypocrisy, and lack of faith of opposers... but to just make a proclamation that suggests doom, etc., is probably not going to be acceptable to the site owners. And it shouldn't be, as we are their guests.

The same would apply here; to the extent it remains with you, you should try to be peaceable and reflect Christ as much as possible, even when opposed. It is understandable that at times zeal will cause you to be vehement and even blunt, but love should always prevail, yes?

But again WELCOME... and we are glad to have you here. If you have something to state to JWs, please make sure you state so in your address so that others aren't confused as to whom you're speaking to. I can assure that it WILL get to those it needs to - someone will copy and paste it from here... even if to take issue and try to tear it apart elsewhere.

Pull up a chair, make yourself to home. Keep in mind, though, that all here are also subject to be disagreed with. None of us are leaders (only Christ is) and so if there is something that doesn't ring "true", it may be challenged. Always in love, though!

Again, peace to you!

YOUR servant and fellow slave of Christ,

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SONOFMAN SAID

thank you for your words of wisdom. I must say though that I feel my post was only truth. If they can't handel the truth that does not suprise me. I am less suttle in my tolerance for ig nor ance than most. This is because I believe more than they doubt. Thanks for the heads up I will try and feed the pablem pukers less meat. HA HA. Truth hurts some times. David
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The truth can hurt, yes, dear David (again, peace to you!)... but should it be our AIM to hurt others? I mean, I understand reflexive "kicks" (when the doc hits your knee so hard with mallet that you literally kick him into the wall - but that was because HIS blow was greater than necessary and NOT because one's reflexes are SO sensitive that even the slightest tough results in a drastic response...).

While Christ did grow tired of the hypocrites he seems to have taken quite a lot off them BEFORE he grew tired, yes? I am trying to tell you how to share your message - that truly is not my place. I just thought that perhaps because I know that "city" a little better... and some of the people in it... calling down a proclamation simply because some take issue with your message might cause you to be banned so that NO ONE hears it. On the other hand, not retaliating simply "because" can be beneficial.

Retaliation is never a good thing ("Vengeance is mine" says JAH)... and when others reject our MESSAGE, then it's not really US they are rejecting, is it, but our Lord? Not if you are being slandered as a liar, deceiver, etc., then I think you have every right to set the matter straight... as well as forthrightly, sometimes even bluntly expose the deceit and hypocrisy of those falsely accusing you. Indeed, Christ did such, as did his disciples.

Just some thoughts, though. We are fellow servants, not master over one another or one another's faith. So, of course, you must choose for yourself how you will respond to those who oppose you and your message.

Again, welcome... and peace to you!

YOUR servant and a slave of Christ,

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MEDEWTYSENU SAID

when I used to be on JWN and often had these discussions one of the things that struck me was two-fold. One people questioned the authority of the Bible and whether it was accurate. Many of the things said in the Bible have been proven correct over a long period of time.

Then on the other side of the fence you have the one who quote scientific papers or "authorities" on certain matters but dismiss out of hand other scientific papers/finding that support Intelligent Design. it's quite the conundrum and they simply cannot see how what they are doing is the same as any religious person who supports one doctrine or teaching over another because "some guy said so and I believe him". Many things scientific that were once thought as fact is now regarded as fiction and is never brought up or excuses are made. Einstein said nothing can travel faster than light and it was accepted fact for decades until recently when CERN did exactly that. Accepted Fact becomes fiction.
What they're failing to realize is human science isn't very dependable. We've overturned different accepted facts of scientific knowledge in a very short period of time. Yet many things in the Bible has withstood the test of time, contradicting what science had to say on a subject, being an object of ridicule for it and then later proven correct.

Such things as the existence of the great city of Nineveh whom scholars said never existed, until it was found and they had to eat their words.

http://classic.net.bible.org/dictionary ... rd=NINEVEH

http://www.ultimatebiblereferencelibrar ... Bible.html

It seems to me that what has happened when believers become Atheists is that they have traded one set of beliefs for another and become just as zealous as an atheist as they were as a believer. The problem isn't whether either of them is true or false but that the person themselves had no true root in themselves. They readily exchanged one set of beliefs for another. Atheism cannot be proven, just as Christianity is circumstancial to those who do not hear and have not experienced Yahveh working in their lives.
I too had this problem for a long time and finally realized that the fault lay entirely with me and not Yahveh. I am the one who failed to thoroughly search him out, I am the one who failed to seek, to keep knocking, to keep asking and to have patience.
Yahveh said the Israelites were a stiff-necked people (refusing to bow in obeisance). that describes most of humanity. If we didn't "discover" it or "invent" it, then it's not important. We also want glory and adulation for ourselves. If God suddenly descended from the clouds and shook the very heavens, there would still be doubters or people would say it was done with smoke and mirrors, because we as a race are so hard headed and stiff-necked. We have to learn to not be selfish and not seek our own glory.
You just cannot convince some people no matter the evidence you present. Think of Pharaoh in the time of Moses and how he behaved despite seeing all ten plagues. He never believed, he just wanted the plagues to stop, for had he believed he wouldn't have followed the Israelites into the Red Sea. he would had cut his losses and be glad to still have his life. Instead his hard heart led him to do something truly stupid. Of course it saved the Israelites from further pursuit and magnified Yahveh's name, but it was a stupid thing for Pharaoh to do.

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SONOFMAN SAID

Again I understand your take on this issue and you are right silence however says to most of these people that we are incabable of backing up our beliefs and faith. In my case I have no problem with an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. Your right however the point is to try to lead by example. Knowing exactly where they are going from here changes the view of what is the wisdom in the matter. better to find out know than on the other side, therefore my direct approach is mercy of sorts depending on your point of view. Thankyou for your input I will try to temper the sword a little. David
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