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Throwing in the towel, dear Skals-Girl? Peace to you... and NEVER may THAT happen, JAH willling! No, luv, only that perhaps it's time for me to get out of some folks' way, is all... and the way of the Way, Christ, as TO them. If I keep giving where ones should be going to HIM... why would they GO to him, at all? Paul mentioned, as to some, that sufficient time had passed by for THEM to know and share things... yet, they still needed milk. Just because a child WANTS to keep breast feeding doesn't mean they SHOULD... or that its good for them. After a certain point (say, age 21)... they're probably malnourished. No, time for them to pony up to the table and learn to eat meat... and WITH a knife and fork! LOLOL! Or at least be able to "order" their own meal.
And so, I am hoping to be able to let go, in some instances, and let Christ himself FINISH some's training. Wish can occur... if they would get over their fear... and dependency... take off the training wheels... and just learn to ride. Of course, that would take some trust... er, faith. But if they keep relying on others to hold the bike up for them, well, come time they're, say, full grown, BOTH are liable to end up end the bushes. The rider, because s/he STILL hasn't learned to ride well... and the holder because, well, they get dragged down with the bike because they failed to let go.
Of course, the "child" on re bike initially feels fear... and perhaps even some feelings of "abandonment" when the holder lets go... but of they JUST KEEP PEDALING, not only do they learn they CAN ride... but understand that it's not until the holder lets go... that they no longer NEED the holder. Maybe never did but was too afraid to find out.
As for the holder, while s/he gets great joy out of teaching a young one to ride, very few want to do it day after day, even as the young one grows into adulthood. At SOME point, the HOLDER has to consider and ask himself/herself: maybe the one can't ride ALONE... [i]because YOU'RE always holding up his/her bike. Maybe you need to LET GO... and just let him/her ride. OR... maybe it's time for another teacher."
And if the latter, what could be better than handing them over to the BEST teacher your money can buy?
Of course, if they look like they might fall, I would absolutely reach out. And, so long as they don't slap my hand away when I do, try to help them back up. Otherwise, I must ASSUME they WANT to ride on their own. Which is as it should be anyway, yes?
So, no, luv... not throwing in the towel. Just trying to help some stand up on their own... finally... without the crutch/holder.
I hope that helps.
Again, peace to you!
Your servant and a slave of Christ,
Shellamar
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